Disillusionment with the parents, however good and adequate they may be both as parents and as _____1_____, is to some degree ____2______. Most children have such a high ideal of their parents, unless the parents themselves have been _______3______ that it can hardly hope to ____4_____ to a realistic evaluation. Parents would be greatly surprised and deeply ____5_____ if they realized how much belief their children usually have in their character and _____6_____, and how much this faith means to a child. If parents were prepared for this ____7_____ reaction, and realized that it was a sign that the child was growing up and developing ____8____ powers of observation and ______9_______ judgment, they would not be so hurt, and therefore would not drive the child into ______10_______ by resenting and resisting it.