Dahlia was running around the house screaming and crying. “I hate her! I hate her! I will __26__   play with her again!” Finally, her steps slowed,  __27__  she told her father what had happened. He listened attentively.   __28__   she stopped, he asked, “Is there __29__  else?” Dahlia added more details and began  __30__  bitterly again. Father was listening. When Dahlia   __31__  talking, he said, “It must __32__ you to be made fun of like this by your best friend Tina.” Dahlia  __33__  her father’s embrace（拥抱）and support as she cried  __34__  more in his arms. Then as  __35__   as the storm of tears began, she was finished. She got up and  _36__  announced, “Daddy, did you know that tomorrow Tina and I are going together to the beach? We are  __37__   a log house there with Adam and Tom, I will tell Tina before we go that I   __38__   ruin her work again, and I’m sure she will be  __39__ to me. ” Why was this encounter (sudden meeting) so successful? How did Dahlia __40__  her sadness so completely and realize her responsibility in the matter __41__  her own? There were three main parts in her father’s reaction that   __42__  : (A) Attention (B) Respect (C) Trust. He gave his daughter __43__ attention and took her seriously as she   __44__  her feelings. He respected her by not coming with words of wisdom, advice or help. He validated（证实）the feelings she __45__ . And he trusted her to do and say what she needed in order to lead herself toward resolution of her emotions. 小题1: A．hardly B．seldom C．ever D．never 小题2: A．so B．but C．and D．then 小题3: A．Before B．When C．While D．Since 小题4: A．something B．anything C．everything D．nothing 小题5: A．crying B．running C．talking D．saying 小题6: A．kept B．started C．stopped D．hated 小题7: A．hurt B．ache C．injure D．wound 小题8: A．got B．received C．accepted D．admitted 小题9: A．many B．some C．any D．no 小题10: A．soon B．quickly C．suddenly D．fast 小题11: A．surprisingly B．angrily C．sadly D．cheerfully 小题12: A．building B．buying C．making D．repairing 小题13: A．shouldn’t B．won’t C．daren’t D．can’t 小题14: A．polite B．cruel C．rude D．nice 小题15: A．get over B．get away C．get along D．get through 小题16: A．for B．on C．by D．in 小题17: A．did B．followed C．went D．worked 小题18: A．full B．incomplete C．half D．undivided 小题19: A．sent out B．threw out C．put out D．poured out 小题20: A．expressed B．showed C．said D．strengthened