The ability to laugh at your own weaknesses and blunders has long been recognized as a sign of maturity. And yet this is one of the most difficult __1__ of your sense of humor to develop. Oscar Wilde once offered a __2__ insight about the way we live our lives when he said that “Life is too important to be taken __3__.” I don’t think he meant you don’t have to take your responsibilities, promises, work, etc. seriously. He didn’t mean that it’s OK to live life with no __4__. I think he meant that the quality of our life suffers when we __5__ everything in a serious manner. We are no longer vivid, cheerful and spontaneous as when we were kids when we take everything so seriously. I think the key here is to take your work and your duties seriously, but take yourself __6__ in the process. Otherwise, you will lose many __7__ that a cheerful attitude and humor can offer. There’s liberating quality that most people __8__ when they get to the point that they can laugh at themselves. We get so caught up in our anxieties, embarrassments, frustrations and upsets that we carry them around with us throughout the day. But when we find a way to laugh at them, they lose their emotional grip on us and __9__ into the background. We feel at peace with the incident, even though it was very __10__ at the moment. [A] benefits [B] incompetence [C] delighted [D] lightly [E] witness [F] approach [G] integrity [H] responsibilities [I] valuable [J] disgusting [K] aspects [L] seriously [M] embarrassing [N] retreat [O] experience