In that state of paranoia, my husband and I began a 1_________ of fighting about why he wasn’t taking on half of the childcare duties. In my Western eyes, he was falling short of my expectations and wasn’t 2_________ his role as a father. I was incensed at his laziness when it came to washing diapers, for example, or his 3 _________ work-related time away from home rather than coming home to be with his daughter. Or, worse, his 4 ________ expectation that while his mother was in our 5_______________, she would just wash up every dish he used.