A high school history teacher once told me, 'If you make one close friend in school, you will be the most fortunate. A true friend is someone who stays with you for life.'_36__ teaches that he was right. Good friendship is just not easily_37__. It is possible that we simply do not stay in one place long enough for a _38_ friendship to 39   . However, there can be 40 disagreement on the need for each of us to think carefully about the kind of friendship we want. To most of us, friendships are considered very important, but we need to be clear in our __41_ the kinds of friendship we want. Are they to be close or _42 at arm's length? Do we want to 43 ourselves or do we want to walk on the surface? For some people , many friendships on the surface are __44_ enough-- and that's all right. But on some points, we need to 45 that our expectations are the same as our friends' expectations. The sharing 46 experience 47 our tears as well as our dark dreams is the surest way to deepen friendships. But it 48 be undertaken slowly and carried on only if there are 49 of interest and action in return. What are some of the _50__ of friendship? The greatest is the attraction to expect too much time or too soon. Deep relationships 51 time. Another 'major difficulty' is the selfishness to  think one 'possesses' the other, including his time and attention. Similarly, friendships 52 actions in return . In 53 words, you must give as much as you take. Finally there is a question of taking care of . Unless you spend 54 time together , talking on the phone, writing letters, doing things together, friendships will die 55 . 小题1: A．Experience B．Practice C．Knowledge D．Success 小题2: A．understood B．realized C．formed D．produced 小题3: A．common B．true C．short D．whole 小题4: A．design B．intend C．develop D．appear 小题5: A．none B．no C．any D．some 小题6: A．hearts B．thoughts C．minds D．actions 小题7: A．remained B．kept C．left D．stayed 小题8: A．own B．owe C．share D．spare 小题9: A．that B．very C．not D．quite 小题10: A．make sure B．remember C．expect D．check out 小题11: A．social B．personal C．good D．ordinary 小题12: A．including B．to include C．includes D．included 小题13: A．must B．need C．will D．can 小题14: A．marks B．sights C．scenes D．signs 小题15: A．differences B．difficulties C．advantages D．types 小题16: A．cost B．spend C．ask D．take 小题17: A．depend B．request C．require D．suggest 小题18: A．some B．many C．different D．other 小题19: A．less B．comfortable C．reasonable D．a lot 小题20: A．for B．away C．out D．from