Most stories of kindness do not begin with a Marvel movie superstar. Mine 1 It was at a garden party for the ACLU. I was 2 my grandmother to the event. When Robert Downey arrived, in a gorgeous cream-colored suit, my grandmother shrugged, far more interested in 3 her paper plate with cheese. He wasn't Cary Grant or Gregory Peck. What did she 4 ? After the speeches 5 with thanks, we stood up to make our exit. But as she rose, my grandmother 6 and fell into the wheelchair ramp ( 坡道 ) that provided the disabled with 7 to the stage. The wheelchair ramps had 8 edges, which sliced her leg right open. The blood was 9 . I put my head 10 my knees because I thought I was going to faint ( 昏倒 ). 11 , somebody took control of the situation. That person was Robert Downey. He ordered someone to call a(n) 12 . He took off his gorgeous suit, 13 his sleeves, and grabbed my grandmother's leg. Then he took the suit, which I'd 14 he'd taken of only to get it 15 and he tied it around her wound. I watched the suit turn red with her 16 , He knew how to speak to her, 17 her, and---most critically---play to her vanity ( 虚荣心 ). He told her how beautiful her legs were. He stayed with her until the ambulance came. Believe it or not, I hurried into the ambulance without a word. I was too 18 and too shy to thank him. We all have things we wish we'd said, moments we'd like to revisit and re-experience. Rarely do we get that chance to 19 those times when words completely 20 us.